Our Wedding
Today marks our 3-Year wedding anniversary and what better way to celebrate than to take a walk down memory lane at the day it all began. We hope you enjoy this photo journal of one of the most special days ever, the day we became The Sudarsono’s.
Getting Ready
Waking up the morning of June 16th, 2018, I was filled with a calming peace, as well as utter excitement at the thought of marrying my best friend. I remember having a family huddle at my parents’ house before leaving to the venue and the four of us hugging one last time before I would officially transition from a Tan to a Sudarsono. It was such a bittersweet moment, knowing that everything would change from that moment on. We prayed together and I left for the venue with my sister to get ready for the wedding.
It was a gloomy June morning, so we were constantly praying for sun and warmer weather throughout the day. Unfortunately, the weather didn’t change and I found myself quite disappointed that of all days our wedding day had to be overcast and cold. There were many parts of our wedding that I couldn’t control, weather being one of them, but I decided to just focus on James and the joy of finally becoming a wife. Those of you who know I struggled with perfectionism would know the frustrations I had to overcome, but I’m thankful that even then God was showing me that there is beauty in the midst of imperfection. And our wedding day truly was nothing short of beautiful. — SS
I’ll never forget the reaction of my bridesmaids as they saw me in my wedding dress for the first time. The photos capture their excitement and joy so perfectly. — SS
Just as I was about to head out to the ceremony site, I was delivered a surprise gift from James. Inside the box was a beautiful emerald green “Mrs. Box”, though what caught my attention were two journals. As I turned the pages, I realized that these journals were filled with almost daily entries dating all the way back to the very first time we talked. From our dates, to our prayers, fights, memories, and everything in between, he had secretly been documenting it all. I was so very surprised and couldn’t hold back the tears — never before had I been given such a precious gift as special as this.
On the front page he wrote that his hope in writing the journals was to one day gift them to me on our wedding day. What a beautiful thing to see his faith and hope as he wrote those first words. There I was opening this gift just minutes before walking down the aisle and saying, “I do.”
I always knew I was marrying a one-of-a-kind, amazing man. That moment truly filled my heart to the brim with so much love for this man I would soon get to call my husband. — SS
To say I was nervous would be an understatement. I felt like throwing up the entire morning, not from the idea of standing up at the altar, but just at how momentous of an occasion the day was. I was marrying the love of my life, the girl of my dreams, in just a matter of hours. But at this particular moment - the only thing I was thinking of was how I could not tie this darn bowtie. — JS
The boys look GOOD. One of my goals was to have a classy ride for my big day. En route to the pick up the Lamborghini Huracan, I received a phone call telling me that the Lambo needed repairs, but a brand new and far more valuable Ferrari 488 was available. Safe to say, the boys had no issue with settling for the upgrade. — JS
The Wedding Ceremony
The ceremony was like something out of a fairytale. Giant oaks towering over us framed the beautiful wedding arch adorned with a stunning flower arrangement - all to capture this one special moment.
I cried like a baby. The second Sharon started walking out, the floodgates flung wide open. I thought of the impossible story of how God had brought us together - how I had written in a journal over three years prior about God telling me I would marry this girl I barely knew - and how He had made it all come to pass, just as He had planned. Not a single detail missed. This girl was everything I looked for in a partner, and I knew I didn’t deserve someone as beautiful, intelligent, and incredible as her, yet here she was, walking down the aisle, about to become my wife. Sharon was and always will be the living example of God’s grace in my life. — JS
One thing I had always wanted to do at my wedding was lead worship during the ceremony. To welcome the Guest of Honor and to take time to welcome God’s presence meant everything to me. After all, we would not have been there without His divine guidance through our journey. It was such a sweet moment singing a simple song of “I Love You Lord”. I’ll always cherish that moment. — SS
The weather was overcast and chilly the entire day, but just as we worshipped and said our vows, the sun broke through the clouds. It was as if even the heavens couldn’t help but smile for just a moment.
Our wedding day was our very first (and my first ever) kiss. Some people would ask me if I was nervous or if it was worth the wait. Undoubtedly, it was worth it and made that moment so very special. — SS
The Reception
Both fathers gave speeches, appropriately so as the following day would be Father’s Day - one on which either gained a son and a daughter.
My dad’s speech was something else. I don’t think I’ve ever laughed that hard at anyone’s wedding. A true speaker and entertainer. I wonder where I get it from. — JS
My boys can dance. Shoutout to Jason and Ericko for helping me choreograph this masterpiece. I apologize to all the old folks who watched me grind on Sharon just a couple hours after making her my wife.
Song List —
24K Magic
Jump On It
My Heart Will Go On
Get Low
All The Time
I Want It That Way
Portraits
We are so thankful for each and every person who was there to celebrate with us and for those who worked tirelessly behind the scenes to make it happen.
And now, we are elated to be able to share this incredible day with you all.
June 16, 2018 - A day forever etched in our hearts. The day we became The Sudarsono’s.
